Thanks everyone for your tips :D
I am stitching her the way she is charted (sideways lol) I like her better this way.. I did think about turning her to stitch her but decided not to incase in my tired state I messed a symbol up... in the future sideways charts get turned lol.
Anyway here she is :D
Its not much progress really, but now that I have my mindset sorted I should be fine lol
I will leave you with another picture from Aliyahs dedication. This is Christian.... can you tell how cheeky he is? lol